Men love being more sexually experienced and loath being less sexually experienced) If you have crazy sex stories and he hasn’t, don’t share them (but don’t share even if he has.If you have been with more men than he has, don’t share it.If you have been with more than 10 men, don’t say it.What I can tell you from an amoral and Machiavellian perspective of what works best: Well, if you want to be honest… Then you’d start by keeping your sexual partners’ count low. In David Buss’ research men seeking a long-term partner rank faithfulness as their #1 priority.įor obvious reasons, faithfulness is not as important in short-term dating. “Playing hard to get” (reasonably, see later).No frat-type stories to share of drunken hookups.Little “secretive meeting with the girlfriends only”.It’s about making him feel you’re not going to sleep around and he won’t have to guard you like a prison guard.įidelity cues in the scientific literature include:Īnd from personal experience living I add: Men tend to divide women into Madonna and whores.Īnd they don’t want to invest in the whores.Īnd don’t worry, it’s not about being religious or SUPER restricted.
#WOMEN ONLY DATE UP HOW TO#
If you want an example of “animated facial expression”, look at this clip:ĮxceptionAL Dating: How to Succeed Despite Shortcomings 3.
#WOMEN ONLY DATE UP FULL#
I’ll never forget the woman who jumped and shrieked full of excitement when our “romantic boat ride” was ready. I’d personally also add a “sense of wonder” and “excitement” to be used whenever you’re doing something you like. “Acting” young is an effective technique to be more attractive.Įvolutionary psychologist researcher David Buss lists the following traits for “youthful behavior”: Effectivenessīeing strategic as to when to best settle down is very effective.Īs a matter of fact, in the West where everyone largely leaves this important part of their lives to chance, it might be the best-kept open secret in the world. It’s not true that “younger is always better”, but on average younger women do command more negotiating power in the sexual marketplace. How young depends on a number of factors, including how old he is, what he can realistically get, and whether or not he wants children and a serious relationship. Just taking care of them – especially in the phase when you’re looking for a partner. You don’t have to be great at all or at any of those. Science supports all following items as important dating assets: It starts with personal hygiene and basics such as shaving legs and upper lip.
It’s the foundation of any good dating strategy.Īnd please note, it’s not just about “looking better”, but also an indicator of taking care of oneself.Įvery time I see a woman I like who does not take care of herself, I lose some interest in her.Ī woman who doesn’t care at all about her appearance is like a man who is happy to remain at his entry-level job. Derogate Your Competitors (Without Sounding Jealous)Īll women instinctively know that men place a premium on appearance.Īnd as a natural consequence, one of the most ubiquitous female dating strategies revolve around enhancing physical appearance. Signal Exploitability (& Flip The Scripts Later)
Selectively Smitten: Encourage His Pursuit
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